Finding your mama tribe isn’t always easy, which is why best friends Gracie Weeds and Daisy Eliza Winter decided to set up Mummy Meet Ups London: a community born out of late-night voice notes, shared newborn fog, and the realisation that no one should have to navigate motherhood alone. With children at different stages, and a refreshingly honest approach to both parenting and Instagram, the duo are redefining what modern mum support looks like: messy, inclusive, and unapologetically real. Here, they open up about friendship, comparison, chaos, and why showing up exactly as you are is more than enough.
Can you tell us a bit about your motherhood journeys so far? Gracie, how do your experiences differ with a toddler/teenager versus a growing family like yours, Daisy?
Daisy: My motherhood journey has been a whirlwind in the best way. I’m currently mum to three – Ozzie, Sissy and Sonny – and expecting baby number four soon, so life is full, loud, chaotic and very real. Each stage has brought something completely different: the newborn bubble, the toddler tantrums, the school runs, the sibling dynamics… it’s constant change.
What I’ve learned is that no phase is “easier” – it’s just different. I’ve had seasons where I felt totally in control and others where I felt like I was just surviving, not thriving.
But I think that’s the beauty of motherhood – you grow alongside your children.
Being around mums like Grace, who are navigating different ages and stages, really highlights how universal the challenges and emotions are. Whether you’re dealing with sleep regressions or teenage emotions, it’s still that same deep love, worry, pride and exhaustion all mixed together.
Our two littles are six months apart and I couldn’t imagine navigating it all without her. We both had our first babies at 21 (she’s just a bit older than me!! Sorry love). She’s been my saviour throughout those sleepless nights, teething episodes and everything in between. I value our friendship so much – at this rate she’s basically the second parent.
What inspired you to start Mummy Meet Ups London?
Honestly, we valued our friendship so much and realised how much we needed each other throughout our postpartum experience. It actually saddened us to think that others might not have a friendship like this. London can be really lonely and such a hard place to make new friends.
We wanted a space where parents could turn up exactly as they are – with babies, bumps, toddlers, no makeup, anxiety, confidence, whatever – and feel instantly welcome. No pressure, no cliques, no expectations. Just people who get it.
Mummy Meet Ups London was born from that need for community. We didn’t want it to feel formal or forced, just genuine, supportive and warm. Somewhere you could make friends, laugh, vent, bring your baby, and leave feeling lighter than when you arrived.
How do you make your events inclusive for mums at different stages of motherhood?
This is so important to us. We never want anyone to feel like they don’t “fit” because of their stage of motherhood. Whether you’re pregnant, have a newborn, a toddler, school-age children or are even coming alone for a break, you are welcome.
We choose accessible locations, keep timings flexible, make sure there’s space for prams, feeding and changing, and we always try to create an atmosphere where it’s normal for babies to cry, toddlers to wander and mums to dip in and out of conversations.
There’s no pressure to stay the whole time. You can come for ten minutes or two hours – it’s about what works for you. We adore the community’s little ones and are always ready with open arms for a snuggle whilst you drink your coffee hot.
How do you approach sharing your motherhood journeys on Instagram?
Daisy: Very honestly. I’ve never wanted to present a perfect, polished version of motherhood because that just isn’t real life. I share the messy, the funny, the emotional, the chaotic and the beautiful.
For me, Instagram is about connection, not always performance. If someone watches my content and feels less alone, less guilty, or more understood, then I’ve done what I wanted to do. I talk about pregnancy, exhaustion, mum guilt, joy, overwhelm – all of it – because that’s the reality.
Grace: For me, Instagram is a creative outlet. I love sharing mine and Ada’s outfits – dressed up to casual and everything in between. I want to show mums that the feeling of “losing yourself” or “losing your style” after a baby can be grabbed back with two hands.
I also share the tantrums, the mess and the chaos of my family – we all just take the mick out of each other. I always think if I can make one person smile whilst watching anything I post, then I’m doing a good job.
What’s your favourite thing about being part of the mum Instagram community?
The support. Without a doubt.
There’s something really powerful about women lifting each other, especially in motherhood where it can feel isolating. The messages, the comments, the “thank you for saying this” – it reminds you that you’re part of something bigger.
We also love how open mums are. We talk about things that used to be hidden – mental health, identity, struggles, relationship changes – and that honesty is so refreshing.
How do you handle the pressure or comparison that sometimes comes with social media?
Daisy: I won’t pretend it doesn’t creep in – it does. But I’m very conscious of reminding myself that Instagram is a highlight reel. It’s a tiny snapshot, not the full story.
I try to stay grounded in my real life. My kids don’t care about aesthetics, algorithms or engagement – they care about whether I’m present, loving and there for them. That perspective really helps.
Grace: “Comparison is the thief of joy” is what I always say. Everyone is on their own journey and lives different lives, and like Daisy mentioned, people show the best bits. You just have to remind yourself of that when you see someone posting their mansion while you’re sat in your two-bed flat – they could be miserable! I have a happy and healthy family home and that’s all that matters
How do you balance the chaos of family life with finding time for yourselves?
Daisy: Short answer: imperfectly.
Long answer: I’ve learned that “me time” doesn’t have to be big or glamorous. Sometimes it’s a coffee alone, a shower without interruption, a walk, or even just five minutes of quiet.
Running Mummy Meet Ups London has actually become part of that balance for me – it fills my cup. Being around other mums, talking, laughing, creating something meaningful… it’s good for my soul.
I also remind myself that seasons change. Some phases are all about survival, and that’s okay.
Grace: This is always a struggle for me. I find it hard to balance, so I often use my working days as my “me time” too – a walk to the office or getting my nails done on my lunch break.
Most mums have their evenings once the kids are in bed, but as I have a teen, she’s usually up later than me I do like to arrange the odd girls’ night with my mates too – that’s definitely classed as “me time” and really fills my cup.
Also… an uninterrupted bath!
And finally, for any mums thinking about starting their own parenting-focused project, what would you tell them?
Do it. Even if it’s small. Even if it feels scary. Even if you think, “who am I to do this?” – because that’s exactly how we felt. I (Daisy) have been sharing motherhood content for eight years now and only took myself seriously seven years in… and it’s really paying off.
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You don’t need a perfect plan. You just need to start.
Mums have so much power, creativity and empathy – and when you channel that into something that supports other parents, it’s incredibly special.
Trust your instinct, build slowly, and don’t underestimate the impact you can have. Community matters. And if your idea comes from a genuine place, people will feel that.
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